Double, no, triple your troubles and you’d still be better off than someone else. Not disregarding your troubles, or discrediting someone else. But, own who you are!
Now, divide and decrease your troubles by 2, no by 4 and you’d still be in more distress than someone else! Not discrediting your stress, or disregarding someone else. But, own who you are!
Accept your inheritance. The ones you made for yourself and the ones that made you! And, be willing to act on your complaints; and not just protest them!
For all that matters is “what you have over come”, as to happiness is only for those who have felt unhappiness.